This is one of the question you ask yourself. Can you create the life you dream about on your own without asking anyone for help? It doesn't matter how close you are to people or how many friends you have, in the end you only have you. Trusting yourself can allow you build your self-confidence and making the process of decision making easier. Stop comparing yourself to others, there is just no point in comparing yourself to anyone else. Rather focus on yourself and your journey.
Learn to support yourself, find your interests, fall in love with life alone. This is a good self-love.
Self-love means accepting yourself as you are in this very moment for everything that you are. And letting go of toxic people, not worrying about the opinions of others and allowing yourself to make mistakes. We’re told again and again from a young age “nobody’s perfect, everyone makes mistakes.” But the older you get, the more pressure you feel never to fail. Cut it, make mistakes so you can learn and grow from it.
Start accepting your emotions for what they are and putting your physical, emotional and mental well-being first.